Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're
doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite
frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman
and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your
calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do
everything in order to move things forward.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then
you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number
or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to
take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the
standards of behavior.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls
are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because
they are "pretty.")

It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not
"extroverted" by nature.

... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion
fatigue" from a client of mine.

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to
struggle with it before.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would
go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself
mentally DRAINED.

I would have to sit down and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of
having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see
how strange it is.

I would go home absolutely dead

... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The
emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the
effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me
or to sleep with me.

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go
out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I
admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those
stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual
frustration)

It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in
the gym, that is how I pursue myself.

I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles
that I've never done before.

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably
working too hard in your interactions with women.

Here are the 3 reasons for this.

The first reason is may be new to you - being socially
proactive.

As I can remember, I don't have a pectoral muscles - (the
one that is right at the top of your chest just under the
clavicle that makes the chest look bigger)  before I started
lifting weights.

Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a
good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I
worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move
my arms.

And then I reached a tipping point of sorts, where the
muscle was developed enough that I could handle big amounts
of weight without all the soreness and fatigue. Your mind is
the same way.

You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to
the level of your skills. Because developing a new
neuro-pathways will take time.

Thinking that meeting women requires a lot of hard work can
cause a social fatigue. And that is the second reason.

It's not really so much about "fatigue" but it's more on
having an overwhelmed feeling.

When you feel overwhelmed by something, it can frazzle your
mind, and lead to a sort of depression, or discouragement,
which may feel like exhaustion if you're not deeply aware.
It's like your body is saying "ugh, it's too much work. I
give up before I can even begin."

This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from
this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my
theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was
looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.

It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the
needed things just to get a good quality of women.

The last reason for feeling exhausted in the dating and
mating game is that you are spending too much mental energy
in the wrong places, wasting your focus on stuff that isn't
useful to pickup .

I'd say 99 percent of guys get it wrong when it comes to
attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can't
tell, because most guys learn to hide their inner "stuff"
after a few harsh rejections.

But of course we can't oppose to the reality that when a guy
is attracted to a girl, he is trying his best just to win
her or at least know if the women likes him too.

Think about the messages we get from the media, our parents
and friends, and women - it's the man's role to IMPRESS the
woman and EARN sex from her.

So Pathetic!

I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around
a cute girl trying to impress her, even though he looks like
a fool while the girl giggles like she's better than him
because she's a girl.

Ok, enough for that protest... my point here is that so many
guys are being screwed when it comes to the control of their
dating game.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works
when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

Once you get to highest level of your interaction with
women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need
to be at your best both physically and emotionally.

A MAN AT HIS BEST.