I want to share something that you might think that I've lost my mind...

“Some guys will never become great with women.” Yeah, it's true. A lot of guys just won't get it.

And it's not because they're not smart or somehow defective... In fact, it's a subconscious choice, that they have made unknowingly.

Now, you might be wondering if how can you make sure that you're not one of those guys?

Am I right?

Well I'm here to tell you how. I'll be sharing a very subtle but very powerful fix that most gurus leave it out in their equation. So, probably you will never hear this from them.

Meet Matt. Matt's a good and sociable guy and has taken a bootcamp with another pickup companies. But he still doesn't get the success he longs for; in fact he's not successful at all.

"Vin, why don't you help him!?"

There are a couple reasons why I don't help Matt out. One being he's too set in his ways and is stubborn.

BUT, that's not the real reason. If Matt was only stubborn I'd have an easy time changing his mind about things.

The real reason why I can't help him is the same reason why he isn't successful with women.

As what I have said, Matt's a good guy, but every time we make a conversation I get the feeling like he wanted something from me. In fact a lot of our common friends have said the same thing to me about him.

We don't like hanging out with Matt and neither do women.

Matt always give the vibe of having an ulterior motive. He talks to you like a friend, which is great, but he naturally gives off a vibe that says to me that he's trying to take knowledge, power and fun from me.

The same thing happens when he's talking to women. He treats them nicely and is funny but always gives off this vibe that on the other side he has an underlying intention.

Having intentions with women isn't a bad thing. If you express your sensual intentions openly they'll acceptable it, especially if you have tight game. It may even turn them on. IN FACT it will skyrocket your conversion rate if you do it the right way.

If you come off as creepy and weird and you hide your intentions. Women won't trust you and they will feel unsafe being alone with you. You could be the best pretender in the world but... THEY WILL STILL KNOW.

Being creepy is the "Death" card in the Tarot deck of your love life. It will hinder your any chance of success you might have.

Now you have an idea on what might be going wrong. How do you fix it?

To start with you need to begin being fun and unattached to the outcome whenever you can. It could be anything like telling a great story to a group or being a great host to a bunch of your friends. It could also be a compliment (in the right way of course) or a tease that will spike emotions in way that is fun to a woman.

Be out there talking to women not only because you want to pickup , but because women are amazing, fun and interesting to be with.

Next you need to start doing is being clear about your intentions. This doesn't mean that you tell the girl directly “The purpose why I'm talking with you is so that I can get into your pants." That is a big turn-off and will absolutely kill your pickup about as fast as being creepy.

There are small subtle changes you can make in your behavior that will affect how your intentions are perceived and if you're congruent with what you're saying. There are so many small fixes that I could write a novel on them.

Do you want to read a novel about fixing your creepy vibe and then taking the months to implement it that it will require? I didn't think so. I wouldn't want to spend the months writing that novel either.